How Far We’ve Come — From an Idea to a Family When we look back to 2017, it’s honestly hard to put into words how far we’ve come. What began as a simple idea — a place for like-minded people to connect, explore, and feel accepted — has grown into something none of us could have fully imagined. We didn’t set out to build a “club.” We set out to create experiences. What we discovered along the way was something far more powerful: a community. Over the years, that community has become a family. From Attendance to Belonging In… Read More »

If you spend much time on Fetlife or SLS, you know the single guy is an extremely popular part of the “lifestyle”. In my experience, over the past 15 years of being involved in this, I often wondered why the single guy is treated so much differently than anyone else. Have you ever thought the same thing? Let’s run some quick numbers. On SLS, I went to the “WHO VIEWED ME” section and opened it to show the past 50 profiles that “viewed” us. 50% of them were single guys. Not one was a single lady. And I am willing… Read More »